Tuesday, December 30, 2008
Saturday, December 27, 2008
Is it a crime not getting married when you are already in your 30s? We all know that globally, there are less men than women, and with overseas competition, it's becoming more and more difficult for the single ladies to get an ideal male partner, especially if you are a plain Jane. As we all are aware, most guys looked out for appearance vs character, which has been proven and reconfirmed each year when the statistic board came up with their survey result with those in singlehood.
Gals, love to be loved too, be it the most career minded women that I've known, will come a time, wish to settle down with someone she loves. But when will this someone appears? At her most vulnerable times, she will yearn for a shoulder to lean on... She will envy friends who are having a happy family and hope to get rid of her single hood soon.
But for friends who are in a marriage, they will say, they envy us, the singles. We have the freedom to act according to our hearts. They always need to think twice before making any decision for fear of the impact on their other half. They will reminisce the good old days when they get to save a lot, but after marriage, their savings simply goes to the house utilities bills, household bills, child education & child enrichment courses, etc... They will envy the singles who can just go for a tour without worries, while they can't simply leave their children behind. But if the whole family were to go on a tour, that will be additional expenses and the budget can only allow them to go to nearby countries.
So, is being single or being married better? I would say there will be pros & cons. As much as I love the idea of setting up my own family some day, I do not wish to settle down for the sake of getting married. Getting married is a lifetime commitment, I need to make sure he's the one that I wanted to spend my life with... however, sometimes, even if you think he is the one, this may not be the truth... Life is simply contradicting! So friends, what are your thoughts?
This reminds me a quote from a story by Ajahn Brahm "Poor me, lucky them":
It is precisely the same for single people who envy those who are married, and the married people who envy those who are single. As we all should know by now, when we get married, we are only exchanging "single-person's suffering" for "married-person's suffering."Then when we get divorced, we are only exchanging "married-person's suffering" for "single-person's suffering." Poor me, lucky them.
Thursday, December 25, 2008
Sunday, December 21, 2008
Saturday, December 20, 2008
The first one to post a Xmas Card will be entitled to below RAK.
But I'm not restricting to Xmas Card only! I'll get my family to choose their favorite card and the winner get this.
Come and join us and have some fun. Deadline for submission will be Singapore Time 21 Dec 7pm. International participants are welcomed! Enjoy!!!
Hmm... Think the size of the photo is too big and is cropped, so the actual RAK is more than what you see in my blog, do check them out at the forum!
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
I don't really have the mood to celebrate Xmas as currently, only "STRESS" is up on my head! I need a break! Maybe I should consider hiding in an island over the long Xmas weekend since I need not work on 26th Dec... Any suggestion to where I can hide? Maybe a place without mobile phone and internet connection, where no one to disturb me. Just a few days of peace and simple life...
Is it too late to plan for a short break? Hmm...
Monday, December 15, 2008
First thought, the guy is romantic. Second thought, the guy must be courageous and confident enough to propose in the public. Why I say this? To propose in the public, the guy must be confident enough that he will succeed. If not, he must be courageous enough to face the rejection and embarrassment.
Also, the guy must poised the question at the right timing, else it will only place the gal in a difficult spot. To reject on the spot cause the guy embarrassment, however, if she's not ready yet and she nodded her head, she may back out any moment, causing more hurt feelings. And should she accept the proposal because of the peer pressure, the marriage may not last. Even if with the correct person, the timing still plays an important role!
I wouldn't ask for such "romantic-ness" unless the timing is correct when both are ready to go to the next phrase of life... but sometimes even both factors are available, the thing will still not go through, as life is unpredictable...
Tell me more about romantic proposal stories, I would love to hear them... I have heard a nos of them and left a deep impression... Ask me about the stories? I'll share to you next time...
Sunday, December 14, 2008
K, time to go, need to check out my company and webmail and do a bit of sorting... The thought of going back to work on tomorrow really make me feel dreadful... With the rest of the gals sharing the same thoughts, I need to action fast coz if I were the one who stay behind, you probably will soon see me in newspaper and I definitely hope not... nitez...
Saturday, December 13, 2008
Spotted this Beary Xmas Tree in Takashimaya, how would you like to bring a bear home? Green, Red or White?
Then I spotted this cool Xmas Tree outside The Heeren. The Xmas tree is made of Coca Cola Bottles!!! I love it, And the best part of it, you can spot the shape of a Coca Cola Bottle on the tree. Cool!!! Coca Cola is always my favourite!
A simple stack of stamped coupons tied up with a string of faux pearls & lace...
Christmas Cards for Swapping with TSL members!
~ Loving the distressed look of the Xmas card, I've stamped the phrase "Season's Greetings" in 2 tones to create a dimension.
I love the cut out of the flowes from the PP, it's just go so well with the Prima PP and create a Xmas feel...
More cards! Especially for my angel Pals & Jaron!
~ A Simple green Xmas Ornament Card distressed with inks and hand stamped with Greetings. Cute little Jaron is so excited and loving it, thinking that how come I know he like Mars! (He have mistaken the Xmas ornaments as the Mars... heheee :P)
~ Glittered PP with a touch of Xmas wooden Ornament, I've actually accientally broken the round frame of the wooden ornament, so I cut off and color the edges with my Gold Leaf Pen, then layer it on a scallop paper punch out. Dor has fancied this card when I took out to take a pic of it , and coincidentally, this card is meant for her :)
A simple Xmas Card embellished with a Christmas flowers, how do you like the Christmas feel?
This is the Xmas card that I make at Sophia's place during last crop, I've since then improvised the design by outlining the Xmas ornaments and the border of cards and message frame with my Gold Leaf Pen.
~ I'm having fun with my newly bought Tim Holtz distressed stickes... scattered the stickles around the card to create a distressed yet glittering effect...
The window pane is hand drawn and the presents are cut out from pattern paper (PP)
Open up the window, you see the angel guardian...
Thursday, December 11, 2008
I do not know how these overseas vistors dropped by my blog but I really thank you for dropping by, and I would love to hear comments on how you think about my blog or my works. I welcome all comments, be it positive or negative...
Have a great day and great weekend ahead!
I've cut out the holly leaves / Xmas ornaments / Xmas presents from several PPs for the side decoration; and colored the light bulbs of the "Merry & Bright" Rub On with my Marvy Markers...
Oh yes. I missed out to decorate/alter the teadlight candle... Shucks! This shall be done later...
1st LO: Cheeky as I am, but I'll always by my mom's baby...
~ This is done during the Nov Crop session at Changi Simei CC using diecuts...
Can you see that I've used the spellspinder frame dies to emboss the mini photos?
I've actually cut up 1 Prima Crystal Swirl into 3 parts. Look! The 3-D butterfly is created using my newly bought EK butterfly paper shaper... Added in more dimension by adding the MM Epoxy flower & Prima blue daisy to the stalks of flowers on the PP.
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Zooming in to have a closer view of the bouquet that brightens mom's day...
What's in the bag?
A Simple Pearl Pendant with diamonds...
Rounding up the session with a group photo...
Tuesday, December 9, 2008
I yearn for a shoulder to lean on... but find my bolster is the best support I can count on... For the past few weeks, I tends to doze off during mid way watching TV... it's really a sign of fatigue. K, Zzzz monster coming over me, need to go to dreamland le...
Nitez, my friends, hope you have a good sleep tonight...
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
Have some hiccups on the coordination and I'm dead stressed. Coz if Zzz not joining us, will head for Jumbo Waterfront instead of Jumbo Riverside, but been waiting for Zzz's call but it never came. Finally got Zzz and immediate make a booking for a table of 6 as Zzz can't make it. Shortly after booking made, sis informed that dad is delayed by his work and I rushed off to change the dinner time slot.
Super busy with my work and trying my best to finish as much as I can, then I rushed off to buy a last minute present which I already had in mind but no time to make the purchase. The sky is not in favour for me and it's raining cats and dogs, got myself drenched even though I've got an umbrella.
Finally got to Bugis SK and got a pearl pendant which the salesgirl, Cheryl, recommended. She's got great taste and good recommendation, the pendant is something simple yet elegant and reasonably priced. Then I rushed off to cold storage to get a mini bouquet of rose for mom on behalf of dad, something cheap and decent. And notty me, despite mom's numerous reminder not to buy cake, I proceed with that. What's a birthday celebration without a birthday cake? Moreover, today is her 60th birthday!
Tata, finally reached Jumbo waterfront after a long long queue at Parco Bugis Taxi Stand! Timing is quite nice, I reached only 15mins after the rest arrived the restaurant. Get daddy to present the mini bouquet of rose to Mom and Didi & Ho thought it's their anniversary. The whole thing is planned by me, inviting these special guests beforehand then I advise to my family on the dinner arrangement.
But Ho, is very alert and with super great memory, she vaguely remember mom's birthday is somewhere around this timing only then we reveal it's mom's birthday today. We had a great time over the dinner with a few simple dishes. and after dinner we had a stroll along the bridge connecting Coasta Rhu Condominium & the waterfront. The only regret is probably Bro & Zzz can't join us for dinner. Bro is on a last min mission to bring the tour group to Malacca, but luckily he did remember to send mom a Happy Birthday Greetings.
Can see that mom has really enjoyed today and glad that my efforts paid off. Whatever stress that I've gone through the day is all thrown aside upon seeing mam's wide grin on the face.... Oh yes, thanks Didi & Ho for coming over in the noon, mama really enjoyed your accompany.
Photos to be posted later... the Zzz monster is coming over me, have been super lethargic recently with the increasing work load & stress...